Italy by numbers: Does La Mamma Know About Gays?

Gay 43% Lesbian 43% Knows
Gay 13% Lesbian 12%
Knows, but pretends not to
Gay 18% Lesbian 17% Probably knows, but it has never been discussed
Gay 18% Lesbian 17% Has no idea

A "don’t ask, don’t tell" picture emerges from this survey taken by 3,500 Italian gays.
Perhaps the recent skirmish over the gay pride parade, slated to take place among heated protests from the Vatican and seesawing politicians, will bring things out in the open.

Related resources:
For more on the World Gay Pride festival (July 1-9) 2000
www.mariomieli.net

Italy by Numbers: Extramarital Affairs Improve Marriage

36 months of marriage = 50% libido reduction
57% higher risk of arguments if the relationship is too monotonous/too serene
70% of wives would prefer to vacation without husbands
Most likely to benefit from a fling: clerks, accountants and bankers

Forget the “Seven-Year Itch,” three years of wedded bliss is enough to douse the brightest embers.
The solution? According to Italian sex experts: an affair, real or virtual.
“Summer is like what Carnival used to be-the season where anything goes,” comments sex therapist and researcher Alessandra Graziottin. “However, you don’t have to actually cheat. Being courted and flirting can free up the imagination and make you feel desirable again.”

Related resources:
Couldn’t be better time to launch Italy’s first alibi service, where, for a price, would-be lovers can have all the back-up excuses they want. In Italian & French.
http://alibi.hypermart.net

 

Museums Spark Erotic Adventures

The "Dying Gaul," museum officials call it a "turn on"

by Nicole Martinelli

Husky whispers, audacious approaches, speedy lust: according to a group of psychologists in Rome, museums are fast becoming a favorite for erotic adventures. Of the two million Italians who visited museums in 2000, 20% had some kind of "romantic interlude" while taking in the masterpieces.

Scholars at the Institute of Psychoanalytic Studies are calling the state of arousal inspired by art Rubens Syndrome. "Cultural seduction has always existed," noted sex expert Willy Pasini. "Clearly, from ancient times on, sculptures and statues have acted as catalysts to bring out eroticism."

A bit more surprising, perhaps, is that the hallowed halls of art are so high up the list of pick-up places — second only to the beach. The study noted only ‘marginal’ encounters happened in traditional meeting places such as night clubs, concerts and trains.

A guard at the Capitoline Museums in Rome confirmed the trend: "We often catch people being affectionate and sometimes more, but we’re not surprised. Take, for example, the incredible eroticism of the "Dying Gaul" statue, it’s hard to resist. Especially because visitors can walk around it and really take in the sensuous curves."

Not all artists are equally inspiring, the study noted a Caravaggio painting or Greek sculptures are considered more erotic than paintings by Venetian masters Veronese or Tiepolo.

Researchers found these top Italian’s list of amorously-inspiring art places: Palazzo Doria in Genoa, followed by Milan’s Pinacoteca and Turin’s Modern Art Gallery.

Related resources:
Eyewitness Travel Guide to Italy (revised)

Italy by Numbers:Day After Pill & Fertility by Phone

25,000 number of women used Norlevo in first month available
17-18 average age of users
54.3 % 14-24 year olds use a cell phone
1 service sending “you’re fertile” messages via cell phone Debate about whether the “day after pill” constitutes an abortion has locked politicians and the Vatican in a bitter debate, but a unique service launched the same time as the pill went virtually unnoticed. A new web site about motherhood, www.mamma.it, calculates fertility for would-be mothers—sending a message reading “you’re fertile” via cell phone.

Naturally, the free service, which does not explicitly dissuade women from using it for contraceptive purposes, is likely to be attractive to young women, also among the heaviest cell phone users. Suddenly, the phrase “let’s get together later in the week” takes on a whole new meaning.

Italy by numbers: the “Forever Fianc?” Mentality

55 months average Italian engagement
35,1% couples lived together four years or more
54,3%
decided to get married before living together
57,4%
couples who desire to get married
20,2%
lived together while one partners waits for a divorce

The trend of long engagements gets even longer: young couples opt to wait almost five years to wed.
2001 figures are a year more than in 1987, (3.9 years) and the National Statistics Institute points out that as more women are get university degrees, the waiting period stretches. Living together is still a rarity (only 4% of couples) which means the not-so-soon-to-be weds are shacking up with mom & dad and collecting matching china. Here, well, eventually, comes the Bride?

Related resources:
Maybe it’s more than a literary tradition: decide for yourself
after reading about the trials and travails of Renzo & Lucia in Alessandro Manzoni’s potboiler
classic "The Betrothed"

www.sposiweb.net

send wedding announcements via email in Italian
www.allafollia.com
Create your own “couple home page”

Househusband Boot Camp

A two-week “full immersion” for men to learn how to cook and clean: that’s the vacation proposed by the Italian Househusband’s movement (Movimento degli uomini casalinghi). “We want to promote a man who takes care of the home and cultivates other interests,” explains Antonio D’Andrea, who founded the organization 15 years ago.” A man who has given up the antiquated idea of being a warrior and is interested in cultural pursuits.” Hard to say how many men will pay to learn how to get tough stains out, but the idea is a novel one.

Italy by Numbers: Real Men Buy Moisturizer

Cosmetics purchased by Italian men = circa 240 million USD 1999
Shaving cream & Soap = circa 70 million USD
Pre & After Shave products =circa 130 million USD
Face Cream/Lotions = circa 15 million USD
Gift Packs= circa 20 million USD

Italian men are starting to buy into the idea that beauty can be purchased, preferably in a jar or nicely wrapped package–the figures are up a whopping 13 % from 1998. The National Cosmetics Union (UNIPRO), which conducted the study, has only recently started tracking the "strong sex" at the skincare counter. Better keep an eye on this booming segment…

Italy by Numbers: Love that Lottery

$10 million, circa (19,536 billion lire) income, state lottery (1999)
50% increase from 1998
$15 million, circa (34,029 billion lire) total income betting
$400 million, c. (830 billion lire) income est., State bingo halls Italy’s first bingo halls, hailed as a sure thing by the government, are scheduled to debut in Fall 2001.
While bingo certainly isn’t new to Italy, it’s just now getting out of the living room at Christmas time and into the already-crowded betting arena–which includes three soccer-betting schemes, wagers on horses and numerous state lotteries. To make sure folks don’t consider it the same old game, it won’t be known as “tombola” (the Italian name) but will go by the more “exotic” bingo. The 800 halls, expected to bring in $25,000 a day, are being hailed as a boon to state coffers and entrepreneurs alike.

Related resources:
www.lasmorfia.it
Looking for your lucky numbers? The Neapolitan tradition of interpreting dreams into numbers (“La Smorfia”) is now online.
www.giocodellotto.com
Official lottery site, online games

Italy at Work: the Barnabei protest

In three days 19,736 signatures were gathered on a virtual petition to stop the execution of Italian American Derek Rocco Barnabei.
Despite fervent protests, Italian public sentiment once again failed to sway the governor of Virginia, James Gilmore. Derek Rocco Barnabei, the Italian American accused of murdering his girlfriend, was killed by lethal injection Sept. 14 2000. In the aftermath of general hysteria– safety warnings by the government for Americans abroad and accusations of barbarity– the obituaries for Barnabei passed unnoticed. Some by everyday citizens, some by officials but perhaps the most significant was from the city of Palermo. The notice published by the Corriere della Sera, which named Barnabei an honorary citizen of the city, brings to mind another execution. James O’Dell, executed in 1998 in the same prison as Barnabei, sparked the first wave of public outcry against the death penalty and is, in fact, buried in Palermo’s cemetery.
The Corriere’s round-up special on Barnabei & the protests www.corriere.it/speciali/barnabei.shtml
Italians, already passionate against the death penalty, have taken this case to heart. Derek’s mother, Jane, visited Italy several times (as far back as 1998) to raise funds for his defense. Premier Giulio Amato, the Italian parliament and Pope John Paul II have all made an effort to intervene. But the grass roots protest, especially in Tuscany –where the Barnabei family comes from– has been especially strong.
www.regione.toscana.it/campagne/barnabei.htm

Related resources:
The death penalty, even in fiction, is enough to mobilize Italians into action. Writers of popular radio drama "Alcatraz" were forced to change the ending because the public refused to accept the demise of Jack Folla, an Italian American DJ on death row. Folla escaped from prison and met, however, an untimely end as a TV program. The radio show archives live on: www.radio.rai.it/radio2/archivi/forziere/Alcatraz/alcatraz.htm

 

Italian Teens Taught Motorino Safety, by British Prof

Teenagers are notoriously reckless drivers, perhaps even more so in Italy where, from the age of 14, they can zip around on small scooters without a license or any training. Florentine youngsters will, no doubt, get some very special training when British historian Paul Ginsborg, 55, steps to the podium in November. Ginsborg, author of “A History of Contemporary Italy," will teach teens how to avoid accidents, emergency procedures and basic driving rules. The city government, which sponsors courses for some 400 youngsters between the ages of 14-19, proudly announced Ginsborg’s involvement–he was the first professor to volunteer. Now, if they’ll only listen.

Related resources:
www.espressoedit.kataweb.it/formula1/test/tipo_intro.msn.shtml
Would you be considered a safe driver in Italy? Take the test