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Matt Dunford, profession: Web programmer, nationality: American,
email: zoot@zotikos.com. I’ve lived in Italy for about a year and a half now.
Currently living In: Bozen/Bolzano in Suedtirol/Alto Adige
By way of: Santa Monica, Fresno, Santa Barbara, San Francisco (all in
California).
How (or why) did you get here from there?
Pure luck. I was working in San Francisco when I received a job offer out of the blue from an Italian company.
What role did language skills play in your expat experience?
Language skills are essential to living here. I came here with no practical Italian or German experience, but with the promise of language classes. Visiting without knowing the language is OK, but after living here for a while, you become frustrated with yourself. You quickly find your limits when you can’t communicate with everyone.
Your biggest challenge:
Again the language. There are two spoken in this region, Italian and a German dialect. I didn’t think I would be such a slow learner. I thought I would pick them up pretty quickly as I lived here longer. But it’s turned out to be a long, slow process for me.
What did you do to feel at home or adapt here?
I bought milk and cereal. The lack of it was the only thing that was driving me crazy. Eating that every morning grounded me in a sense. Everything else just took some getting used to.
What do you still have to get used to/learn?
Everything being closed in the evening, usually around 6 or 7p.m. I still think I can go to the grocery store after work.
Compare an aspect (or aspects) of your home town (or other place you’ve lived) to current town.
Everything is much cheaper (compared to Santa Barbara & San Francisco) – from food to rent. Other than that, it’s a lot like small town life. Much like where I grew up. And public transportation is much more accessible here.
Latest pursuits:
Visiting more castles. When you live in a place, you never really do anything touristy. I’ve been relaxing for far too many weekends.
A preconceived notion about Italians/Italy that is not true:
That they drink lots and lots of wine. While it is true, they drink a whole lot of beer too, which surprised me.
A preconceived notion about Italians/Italy that is true:
That Italian women are extremely beautiful. It’s true! =)
Your response/advice/warning to the following question: “I love Italy! I really want to live here, even though I don’t speak Italian or have a job.”
Learn Italian first. (Or is your love for Italy only halfhearted?) It will make everything much, much easier.
Personally, I wouldn’t move anywhere where I didn’t have a job or at least a good lead. Moving to a country where you don’t have a job visa and don’t know the language is insanity in my opinion.
How would you sum up your Italian experience in a word (and why)?
Eye-opening. (I think the hyphen officially makes that one word.) After coming here, I realize how much I had been taking for granted.
Italy’s best kept secret
I think it’s the Sudtirol/Alto Adige region. It’s a blend between the Germanic north and the Italian south. And this applies to language, culture, food, everything. The best of both worlds.