Italy by Numbers: Keeping an eye on teens

39% detectives hired to trail teenagers
32% detectives hired to trail spouses
52% investigations involve 16-17 year olds
92 "risk factor" for Versilia/Viareggio

Italians would rather know what the kids are up to than whether a spouse is cheating. According to detective agency Tomponzi which commissioned the survey, Italian parents spend an estimated $30 billion USD yearly to keep an eye on teens. The boom, which detective Miriam Ponzi says increased 200% from 2000, is due to the increasing trend of teens vacationing unchaperoned.
Investigators have made a hit list of the most ‘risky places’ for teens on holiday: top of the list are beach/club havens like Romagna, Porto Cervo and Porto Rotondo while farm vacations are viewed as relatively safe.

Italy by Numbers: More single parents, fewer kids

71.3% of families have 3 members
21.1% have four members
7.7% have five or more members
If large Italian families are a thing of the past, the future would appear to have more single-parent families than ever..In 1998, single-parent families comprised 10,8% of total families, up from 9,6% of total families ten years before. Over-two thirds of single-parent families have one child, whereas 45% of two-parent families have one child.

Italy by Numbers: Real Purpose of Mobile Phones

42,6% 25-44 year olds use cell phones daily
19,3%
Use cell phone mainly for work
47,1%
Use cell phone to keep in touch with family and friends
3,9%
Use only in case of emergencies
Stats finally prove what most Italians already know: the overwhelming number of mobile phone calls are to “la mamma.” Not long ago the principle of an elementary school in Genoa banned them after students were calling home to fill parents in on class quizzes. Hard to know whether technology will help keep together Italian families but a very non-scientific research indicates the most frequently overheard phrase is “butta la pasta, arrivo!” or rather “throw on the pasta, I’m coming home.”

Italian Mamma: No Time for Cuddles

Apparently, cold climes mean more hugs from moms: Italian mothers spend 15 minutes a day cuddling kids, compared to 42 minutes in Sweden and 47 in Denmark. These are the results of a survey of 3,000 European moms conducted by the International Society for Psychoanalytic Studies. La mamma, noted the study, in Italy watches a record 3.5 hours of TV daily.

Italy by numbers: Does La Mamma Know About Gays?

Gay 43% Lesbian 43% Knows
Gay 13% Lesbian 12%
Knows, but pretends not to
Gay 18% Lesbian 17% Probably knows, but it has never been discussed
Gay 18% Lesbian 17% Has no idea

A "don’t ask, don’t tell" picture emerges from this survey taken by 3,500 Italian gays.
Perhaps the recent skirmish over the gay pride parade, slated to take place among heated protests from the Vatican and seesawing politicians, will bring things out in the open.

Related resources:
For more on the World Gay Pride festival (July 1-9) 2000
www.mariomieli.net

Italy by Numbers: Extramarital Affairs Improve Marriage

36 months of marriage = 50% libido reduction
57% higher risk of arguments if the relationship is too monotonous/too serene
70% of wives would prefer to vacation without husbands
Most likely to benefit from a fling: clerks, accountants and bankers

Forget the “Seven-Year Itch,” three years of wedded bliss is enough to douse the brightest embers.
The solution? According to Italian sex experts: an affair, real or virtual.
“Summer is like what Carnival used to be-the season where anything goes,” comments sex therapist and researcher Alessandra Graziottin. “However, you don’t have to actually cheat. Being courted and flirting can free up the imagination and make you feel desirable again.”

Related resources:
Couldn’t be better time to launch Italy’s first alibi service, where, for a price, would-be lovers can have all the back-up excuses they want. In Italian & French.
http://alibi.hypermart.net

 

Museums Spark Erotic Adventures

The "Dying Gaul," museum officials call it a "turn on"

by Nicole Martinelli

Husky whispers, audacious approaches, speedy lust: according to a group of psychologists in Rome, museums are fast becoming a favorite for erotic adventures. Of the two million Italians who visited museums in 2000, 20% had some kind of "romantic interlude" while taking in the masterpieces.

Scholars at the Institute of Psychoanalytic Studies are calling the state of arousal inspired by art Rubens Syndrome. "Cultural seduction has always existed," noted sex expert Willy Pasini. "Clearly, from ancient times on, sculptures and statues have acted as catalysts to bring out eroticism."

A bit more surprising, perhaps, is that the hallowed halls of art are so high up the list of pick-up places — second only to the beach. The study noted only ‘marginal’ encounters happened in traditional meeting places such as night clubs, concerts and trains.

A guard at the Capitoline Museums in Rome confirmed the trend: "We often catch people being affectionate and sometimes more, but we’re not surprised. Take, for example, the incredible eroticism of the "Dying Gaul" statue, it’s hard to resist. Especially because visitors can walk around it and really take in the sensuous curves."

Not all artists are equally inspiring, the study noted a Caravaggio painting or Greek sculptures are considered more erotic than paintings by Venetian masters Veronese or Tiepolo.

Researchers found these top Italian’s list of amorously-inspiring art places: Palazzo Doria in Genoa, followed by Milan’s Pinacoteca and Turin’s Modern Art Gallery.

Related resources:
Eyewitness Travel Guide to Italy (revised)

Italy by Numbers:Day After Pill & Fertility by Phone

25,000 number of women used Norlevo in first month available
17-18 average age of users
54.3 % 14-24 year olds use a cell phone
1 service sending “you’re fertile” messages via cell phone Debate about whether the “day after pill” constitutes an abortion has locked politicians and the Vatican in a bitter debate, but a unique service launched the same time as the pill went virtually unnoticed. A new web site about motherhood, www.mamma.it, calculates fertility for would-be mothers—sending a message reading “you’re fertile” via cell phone.

Naturally, the free service, which does not explicitly dissuade women from using it for contraceptive purposes, is likely to be attractive to young women, also among the heaviest cell phone users. Suddenly, the phrase “let’s get together later in the week” takes on a whole new meaning.

Italy by numbers: the “Forever Fianc?” Mentality

55 months average Italian engagement
35,1% couples lived together four years or more
54,3%
decided to get married before living together
57,4%
couples who desire to get married
20,2%
lived together while one partners waits for a divorce

The trend of long engagements gets even longer: young couples opt to wait almost five years to wed.
2001 figures are a year more than in 1987, (3.9 years) and the National Statistics Institute points out that as more women are get university degrees, the waiting period stretches. Living together is still a rarity (only 4% of couples) which means the not-so-soon-to-be weds are shacking up with mom & dad and collecting matching china. Here, well, eventually, comes the Bride?

Related resources:
Maybe it’s more than a literary tradition: decide for yourself
after reading about the trials and travails of Renzo & Lucia in Alessandro Manzoni’s potboiler
classic "The Betrothed"

www.sposiweb.net

send wedding announcements via email in Italian
www.allafollia.com
Create your own “couple home page”

Househusband Boot Camp

A two-week “full immersion” for men to learn how to cook and clean: that’s the vacation proposed by the Italian Househusband’s movement (Movimento degli uomini casalinghi). “We want to promote a man who takes care of the home and cultivates other interests,” explains Antonio D’Andrea, who founded the organization 15 years ago.” A man who has given up the antiquated idea of being a warrior and is interested in cultural pursuits.” Hard to say how many men will pay to learn how to get tough stains out, but the idea is a novel one.